The Truth About Having Women In Your Life

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Why do you want more women in your life? It’s probably for the same reason why someone else wants to become wealthier; or have a huge mansion where they will nearly get lose inside. The truth is we’re all looking for the same thing. Yes, it doesn’t matter what it is. That thing is called, “happiness!”

Also you don’t need to go very far to see that most people are struggling with it. Do you know why? Because they’re looking for happiness in the wrong place. That’s right, and the question I have for you today is:

Do you think women will bring you happiness?

What Will Women Give You?

Along these several years, I been with multiple women. A few in their early 20′s, others in their 30′s and 40′s. From different nationalities and personalities. All that I can say is that women haven’t brought me more happiness. Probably, more excitement. But I definitely feel far more just by accomplishing a business goal. Or to simply help another guy attracting more women into his life.

Then exactly going out to a nightclub, meeting a girl and having sex with her.  I’m not saying that it isn’t fun. But there are other things, I prefer.

Anyway, I also been on the other side and I never felt so miserable in my entire life. In other words, not having women is a bitch. A few years ago when I woke up in the morning, the first thing I thought about was that I needed women. Actually, it was the only thing that came to my mind during my whole day.

I remember walking down the street and feeling the need to approach women; or when I went to a nightclub.  This obsession made me incapable of simply enjoying the moment. It was terrible.

What’s so good about being a lady’s man?

The best part from this all, isn’t about having women. As you probably might be thinking. No, but to simply stop worrying about it. It’s the hugest relief that a man can ever feel in his entire life. Even more than when you really need to take a piss hehe….

It’s like a huge weight is lifted from your shoulders. You can be with your friends and truly enjoy their presence; go out at night and have fun; you can walk around town and not give a shit; or focus more on your business, passions, etc.

Also you can choose the situations you want to live with them. You no longer need to settle in a relationship that you don’t like. You have options.  Freedom is exactly what’s so good about this all. That’s why I consider this to be one of the most important steps in a man’s life.

I mean, women won’t bring you happiness. But in a way (if they aren’t crazy), they will bring you peace of mind.

What Will Bring You Happiness?

Everyone is traveling miles and miles to find it. They don’t succeed because they look everywhere but in one place and that is?

In themselves. The truth is you already have it and nothing in this world can ever bring it to you. You hold the key to your own happiness. It isn’t women that will give it to you or anything else. It’s you and only you!

Do you want to see what I mean?

Let’s do a small test:

  • Just put a huge smile and tell yourself, “I feel great!” Repeat it over and over again. I bet after a few minutes, you will feel better. Now do this along your day. That includes smiling to others when you greet them.
  • Start watching more comedy movies and laugh your ass off!
  • Everyday in the morning, be grateful for 15 things that you currently have good in your life. To learn more about this check here!

Do this for a whole week and I bet you’ll feel far happier than before. And you never know, you might actually meet a few girls in the process. Afterward everyone over here would love to read your experience so share it in the comment section below.


4 thoughts on “The Truth About Having Women In Your Life

  • December 16, 2013 at 2:22 pm

    A woman, or women, must be an EXTENSION TO your happiness and your freedom, but NOT your happiness. That’s the natural order of things. When u see beyond the make-up, the tan, the hair, the implants, the tight clothes of a beautiful woman, and see how misarable, bland and negative she is inside, u won’t be as much attracted to her, and sometimes some women’s behavior disgust me. U still want to fuck, of course, and acknoledge and appreciate her beauty, yes, but u wouldn’t want to be around her and in her presence outside of fucking her. Good, positive people can have the best relationships in the world with good and positive people.

  • December 17, 2013 at 11:40 am

    True, but for me not even that. I mean if a girl is negative, no matter how beautiful she is, I just don’t feel like having sex with her.
    Just yesterday I was walking down the street, I saw a beautiful and well dressed girl. I think she was going to a wedding or something.
    She was possibly talking with her friend on the phone. As soon I passed by her, she said really loud, “- Fuck this and that!”

    In my mind, she immediately went from a beautiful girl to an ogre hehehe.

    Besides, I totally agree with what you said about “positive people”.

  • July 3, 2014 at 11:53 am

    One of life’s peculiar, even ugly, truths is that we’re as happy as we make up our minds to be. Any guy who, especially in his 20s, is thinking that finding the perfect woman will make him happy is in for a lot of heartache. It’s paradoxical then that women find a happy man attractive; it makes them feel safe. Being all needy and clingy puts women off faster than anything else. Great topic.

  • July 3, 2014 at 12:47 pm

    Thanks great comment. I like seeing guys who really grasp it. Women are just part of a man’s life, hopefully, more guys out there will start realizing that and focusing on what really matters.

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