How To Have A One Night Stand? Living Like A Rock Star

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Now that I think about it. I wrote a tone of great content and I still haven’t shared with you one of my stories. Therefore, today I decided to talk about one of the most important events during my journey.

It’s my turning point that happened to me two years ago. This was the day that everything changed for me. I realized that I was becoming the man who I envisioned.

My Turning Point

I always had a dream of having a one-night stand with a sexy mature woman. I guess I just find older womenmore exciting and sexier.

The reason is they are usually more direct with what they want. They aren’t like younger girls, where you can always expect a lot of fluff talk and little games. Back then I used to go to a 80′s rock n roll night club with two buddies of mine.
I really liked the music but I also knew I could always find what I wanted there, which was? Sexy mature ladies… that’s right!

I also enjoy the fact that people weren’t so uptight compared to other places. It was pretty common to watch girls singing out loud and imitating Jimi Hendrix while playing the guitar. When I entered the venue my only idea was to have a great and fun night. I wasn’t worried about hooking up with anyone like most guys usually are.

I must have spent nearly two hours rocking with my friends. It was about 3 am in the morning and most people were already leaving.

However, there was still a group of two girls that remained close to us, one was brunette and the other blonde.

They were simply dancing and didn’t make any eye contact or whatsoever. Although, I had a feeling that they weren’t there just because they wanted to dance. Instead, they were looking for something more (many times you might experience this situation, where you sense that a girl is there for you).

I remember that both of my friends left the dance floor to get more drinks and I stayed. I decided that it was the right moment so I approached the brunette and said:

Me: “- Hi, what’s your name?”
She smiled and replied: “- I am Maryanne.”

We spoke to each other for a few seconds then I grabbed her hand and we started to dance. One thing led to another and after a while she began to kiss me.

After a while she wanted to pay me a drink but I had to refuse because I had to drive. Anyway, I still went with her so she could grab her’s. When we were near the bar counter talking, she decided to whispered in my ear with a sexy voice tone: “- Do you want to go home with me?”

Me: “- Hmmm… definitely.”

I went back to say goodbye to my buddies and then we went to her place.  What happened next? Well… I leave that part up to your imagination.

Anyway, it wasn’t actually a one-night stand because it ended being two amazing nights.


Picking Up Women Is Easy

What I want you guys to understand from my story is how easy this shit is. All you need to do is to get out of your head and start living in the moment. You can notice the following:


  • I was in the club to have fun. I wasn’t worried about picking up women.
  • I sensed that the girl was attracted to me. I didn’t approach her blindly and without feeling a connection.
  • I didn’t start the conversation with a smart pick up line. I simply asked her: “- Hi, whats your name?” This is the only line you will ever need.
  • We danced and we had a good time. I wasn’t worried about: “- When should I kiss her” or “What do I need to do to get her into bed.”



Damn…the only thing I did was to grab the opportunity and let it naturally flow. I didn’t start over thinking and doubting myself with negative thoughts.

This is exactly how things are supposed to work. It’s about having good times so stop worrying and start living.


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6 thoughts on “How To Have A One Night Stand? Living Like A Rock Star

  • July 6, 2012 at 2:56 pm

    I really enjoyed your article. I always had an hard time to meet women. I guess many times I over think too much.

    But after reading your post it’s interesting how simple you put it.

    Thanks for helping men. Keep the good work.

  • July 6, 2012 at 3:36 pm

    Wow man that is very interesting experience Jordan. I have been doing the affirmations for a few weeks now in the mirror, And visualizing, and going out to parks and talking to people. So hopefully things start clicking, should we give up Wanting to get laid or Caring is there something we should let go Or give up? Because I do feel kinda needy to get laid.

  • July 6, 2012 at 8:53 pm

    Well, your desire to have sex with women it’s something natural. That is what makes you look her in the eyes with that sexual look etc…

    However, it’s quite different from being needy.

    See at the same time you actually don’t care if she will like you or not. You aren’t looking for her approval.
    You simply don’t give a fuck, if you will actually end up going into to bed with her or not.
    You just know, if she won’t then you have more 3 billion girls in the world waiting to meet you.
    You are simply laid back, relaxed… chill…. aware of the present moment and having fun.

    See this is different from a guy, who is needy around them and nearly begging to have sex with her.
    He will act nervous, overly nice etc…

    Imagine the following, you had several girls and that you had a tone of sex. Actually, you had so much that you needed to cancel a few opportunities.
    If you went out, would you actually care if a girl would like you? Would you put the pedal to the metal and work your ass off trying to get her approva? I guess not…

    And that is the exact feeling that you need to have man.

  • February 10, 2013 at 6:50 am

    Your article hits the right spot. It’s all about being aware and sense the right moment that presents itself right in front of your face! If a man like you is PRESENT and living the MOMENT that guy will get laid. On the other hand if that same guy starts listenting to the “Mind” he will NOT get laid that night

    Like you said in your article:
    “You sensed she was attracted …. you approached her…. you did NOT start doubting yourself and thought negative thoughts”

  • May 18, 2013 at 8:21 am

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  • May 18, 2013 at 9:31 am

    Thanks man, I appreciate it :)

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